Bra's vs. Cars

So topic of discussion came up last night... it was me, Kate and Alyssa on one side and Niel, Rodney and wingard on the other. Us girls were talking about clothes, then bras, then on to relationships, while the guys were talking about cars. So it was interesting to hear another girls opinion of the matter on relationships. It came about when Kate was talking about how she first met me. Then how Rodney and myke came close. Which made more sense to me now of how things were. Apparently myke and Rodney became closer after the his relationship ended with his ex, which by the way his ex is dating my friend. When Kate asked me if i still talk to my friend, i told her not as much just like i had anticipated. I get that when ur in a relationship, that yeah its all fine and dandy that you want to spend all the time in the world with that person, but you also can not neglect ur friends. There is that saying that boys/girls come and go, but ur friends last forever. Which is true. So we started to talk about that, how we still need quality time with friends jus as much as ur bf/gf. Then i got to think about my past. Man was i in a rut!!! i totally didn't get to do what i wanted with my friends without getting grilled about it or my phone ringing every min. Then i started to think back on the friends i lost because their relationships totally took control of them. Makes u wonder... I wasted 9 years of my life on someone that was never going to stay in my life. I had to reconnect with the friendships that i neglected for a relationship that was not going to succeed. live and you learn...

last night as i sat there, i would glance over every now and then at Kate and Rodney. they are so much in love with each other. Then i would look at Niel and he is the most sweetest guy i know. he took care of them that night when he didn't have to. but the best thing about him is that even though its been a year, he still doesn't mind if I'm out and about.

2008 is coming to an end real fast. I'm very grateful for those that came to my life and i don't regret those that left. I'm happy for new relationships that have begun and I'm sorry for those that failed.