One person's trash is another's treasure...

This morning I had alot of things to take care of before heading to work at 9am.

1. get ready
2. bring down pork chopps doll house
3. buy lunch
4. donate pork chopps doll house
5. bank
6. gas
7. niel's house to get notes
8. get to work

Yeah, all that did not happen before 9am. Everything was running smoothly until i got to the good will store. That's what took up most of my time. Well actually 3 minutes of my time. As I pulled up, another truck was there in front of me. i saw in the back of the truck a kids bike, so i figured "oh ok, shes just gonna donate too". Oh no, that's not what happened. I sat there in my car just watching her take clothes that other people left there to donate. She had her little boy in the car as well. I debated if I wanted to drop off the doll house that brought my bunny so much joy to run around in, just to have this lady snatch it up as soon as i drove away. I figured it was now or never. This lady had no shame.


As soon as i dropped off the doll house, her little boy came running out of the truck wanting his mom to take it. he kept looking back at me to see if i was gonna leave it. and i did. $300 was spent to build that incomplete chewed up doll house that i had for years just to have some lady snatch it up. I guess... at least its gonna go to some use.. but i cant help but still feel a bit disgusted that she did that.

Cupcakin' @ a cost...

This past few weeks have been exremely exhuasting!!! After Hiroko's departure, i thought i would be finally getting a chance to settle down and rest... not at all... My brother wanted to throw a get together at the house while the parents were away. it was set for saturday, but since one parental was coming back that day he moved it to thursday. I had plans already to go see the firework show at disneyland. Since it was at my house and they were not arriving til late anyway, i knew i was good.

So i come home, luckily found parking... about a good 15 or less people there.. grill goin, beer pong was set up and a good handfull of drunkies. Luckily there was no drama that night or cops (it being a thursday and all). I actually found someone else (besides kate) that reads my blogs! ***touched*** By the end of the night i had a few passed out people in my living room and a drunk mike ferrer passed out on my sisters floor which we moved him to my hallway with a matress. haha.. oh mike...

Saturday, i took baby love out to breakfast before he saw his patients and then we headed out to the San Diego Zoo. I think we saw all we wanted to see while we were there.. haha... and then headed home for the Tofu House... and thats when i started to get sick.

I had an agreement with my cold, to let me get through this weekend and then it can take over. sure enough it did.. im dying here at work cause of this cold.. haha.. oh well.. it was an amazing weekend for cupcakin'. Summary will hopefully be posted on tumblr depending how this sickness goes today...

July-August

its been a while since i have been here. But basically....

1. Canada: hands down the best vacation for this year... way better than the philippines and I have my girls there in canada to thank for that. They totally fixed my philippines issues and made canada the best one by far.

2. Marc is finally back in town (for good).

3. Work grind M-F

4. Hiroko came for a visit.

5. Celebrated Chris and John's birthday at a Brazillian restaurant and the strip club.

6. Beach and Clubing at Blvd 3 (drama to follow)

7. Fam2 Dinner

8. The Roxy (hilarious drama to follow)

9. Hiroko's goin away BBQ at Nat's

10. Niel finds out that he is best man to Je't and Omar's wedding.

It really has been an exhausting month. I don't know how I can still have the energy for all of it. Im lookin forward to this weekend though for sure. Just a little R&R away from everything. So well deserved...

This past weekend..

Was pretty good.

Saturday: weigh in, wingard won and lost a total of 42 lbs in 2 months. Celebrated at Sizzler. Came back home, chilled. Niel and I then headed up to Van Nuys for Quan's birthday.

Sunday: Lunch with niel's family. Lotus Festival (not as i had hoped for). Dinner with the boys at KBBQ.

Today is now monday... short week for me.

Monday:Errands, laundry, pack?
Tuesday: Final packing
Wednesday: Niel's parents anniversary dinner at Mortons
Thursday: half day for me, pick up Niel and head to the airport.

this is it

So tomorrow marks the final weigh in. im not gonna lie, i didnt make much of an effort as i should of. well thats not all entirely correct. i did what i could. i still have yet gone to get checked up (sorry josie) but so far i believe my health condition is going well. my liver hates me, but i think its forgiven me for now until i get to canada.

SO... tomorrow, weigh in... get fatter... attempt to get to the valley for Quan's bday...

Sunday: I've made plans for this for a month now.. Lotus festival here i come! i hope its not massively hot out either. im not looking forward to being burnt before canada.

4th of july

was intense!!! i had the worst hang over ever! but hands down... it was the best one so far... as i started to slowly remember things, i noticed that i was doing alot of shit talking at one point. apparently i was really drunk, but it was so worth it...

Canada is in 8 days and I'm so excited for it... my liver will totally disown me when i get back. the DIVAS totally are going to make this trip worth it... it is so what me and niel need right now.

Last night we celebrated niel's 1 year of being a nurse at Benihana with clark, john, chris, omar, je't and his godson sage. we had a good time especially sage. he liked the smoke more than the entertainment. its even better when you have the whole table for your own party. so note to anyone who reads this: table fits 8 people. niel was pretty drunk too. i know when he's drunk when he starts getting loud.

oh man, this past sunday (after the massive hang over) i was this close to killing josie's bf! i thought his myspace caused me to lose mine. after accepting his friend request, it totally locked my account. but it came back on after a few minutes.. "WHEW!" i was so gonna kill that guy... hahaha...

so on a lighter note:
1. best times with the BBG's
2. god daughter is amazing
3. valley peeps are totally great
4. baby love is the bestest
5. canada, here we come!

Going Down Hill?

- Sometimes you look back on your life and think about all those things that went wrong and all the times you failed.
- But now the memories help you to remain grounded because you can remember positive aspects to your origins.
- This healthy nostalgia is therapeutic and can make you a happier person.
- Just don't forget to return to the present moment once you're done reminiscing.

Late Recap...

Last week: 06/12/09: Went out to Ritual with kate, darlyn, wingard, mike F, and geremy. Pretty cool... after that we met up with others to Mountain Bar in China Town. Hilarious random saying that night:

Mike F: "Hey where's Niel?? Man i love niel! When i found out he was a DJ, I wanted to suck his dick!!!"

Hahaha.. gotta love mike.

Saturday 06/13/09: Finally got my wallet back from wingard. went out to Sizzler with kate, radp and winnG. Then to blockbuster to buy 8 movies. Came back to the casa and watched "what happens in vegas". Random saying that night:

RadP: "You gotta milk the MEL-ON"

Sunday 06/14/09: LA GAY PARADE! Fuckin the best... had a blast.. met alot of people. got drunk on the streets of hollywood all before 5pm.. Random saying that day:

John (porn star): (while in line for food) "So, you wanna fuck?"

Hahhahaha... my response " I can't"

Yeah. niel was not too happy with my response...

This past weekend...

Was definately a busy one... "WORKED" Fri-Sun from 8-3:30pm,watched "The Hangover" at garden walk and then went shopping with niel on friday... Saturday was the family party (did not accomplish much that i had planned, but was dying in laughter that whole time). Sunday was the final performance of Gavin Rossdale.

Out of all that, i was only expecting work, and the party... all that other stuff was added on by my baby love... but what totally perfected my weekend was the random concert trip... had a total blast with my faves...

Tomorrow is the dodger game with my faves. And now i know that if you want something to actually plan out right, "I" have to do it myself. Oh well.. im excited. we play against the Padres (again) and i get a free dodger cooler bag out of it... YAY!

This weekend is the LA Gay Pride Parade...

Next weekend, baby love is takin me to the Del Mar Fair for the first time!!! unfortunetly i have no pictures from this past weekend...

FOOL...

So naive she is... little does she know... looks are definitely deceiving...

So something for me to look forward to..

June:

06- Family party... hopefully OTH marathong with Josie
10- Dodger game with my loves
13- Showin my support at the LA Parade
27- Ryan's film presentation in LA

July:

04- Myke's Birthday party
05- survive the hangover
11- Lotus Festival
20-26- CANADA BABY!!!

Also since Ryan's film will be showing in NY, we might take a weekend trip up there just to see it. 2009 is definitly my active year...